tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post8946284056365210555..comments2023-10-05T00:25:05.854+13:00Comments on A Pilgrim Soul: I honestly dont know if I'm going to publish or notSharynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13756996252789950326noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-67962402856293447802007-09-20T21:50:00.000+12:002007-09-20T21:50:00.000+12:00So...have you gone back to church?So...have you gone back to church?Debshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192227600368209249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-68386166161493893272007-08-30T17:19:00.000+12:002007-08-30T17:19:00.000+12:00Hey Shaz,Don't mean to buck the trend of AJ/Jo, bu...Hey Shaz,<BR/><BR/>Don't mean to buck the trend of AJ/Jo, but I don't think Christians are meant to go to church... <B>I think</B> it is only natural for people to have sympathetic, supportive relationships with other people.<BR/><BR/>Elim, OBC, whatever, that can go get stuffed. People are what matters. Finding Hel-dawg at Elim is great for you, finding people who can care for you and you can care for them is what counts. I know what you mean about Elim (I felt the same going to my missions camp which Elim did the worship for) - the passion is great, the sincerity is great, but we're both a little older than average there and we're both a little smarter than average there (shock!). We both vote a little bit more left, and we both know what a faith crisis is like (each in our own way).<BR/><BR/>Could say more, but that's good for now.<BR/><BR/>~IainIainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11098216305649347619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-42910915551175381862007-08-09T11:10:00.000+12:002007-08-09T11:10:00.000+12:00I've never really felt like any Church was right f...I've never really felt like any Church was right for me, to be honest.<BR/><BR/>The only way I've really been able to find church that fits is by doing things like Espresso, or Thursday night cell (which I wish I could make more often!), or EU at uni.<BR/><BR/>Some people say those things aren't Church, but I disagree. And, it's through these things that I've had the energy to participate in conventional church as well.<BR/><BR/><BR/>P.s. Do you know anything about Fowler's Stages of Faith? It might interest you.solatnzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13000095601252301344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-87141103930201916992007-07-31T20:20:00.000+12:002007-07-31T20:20:00.000+12:00I remember stages in my life where the act of goin...I remember stages in my life where the act of going to church got me so down, I'd be happy beforehand, and afterwards I'd be so angry and feel so unhappy. Sometimes I don't know why I kept going. It's been weird being on the road now for 4 months, I haven't really had the chance, plus seeing other parts of the world (esp islam countries) has really challenged some of my understanding totally.<BR/><BR/>I've only just really realised that often people focus on the legality that Paul often talks about and not the freedom that Jesus talks about.<BR/><BR/>I know what it was that changed it for me, but I won't say what that is because you've made a point of saying you don't want to do what I did.. Good luckhghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14947021770639759989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-89286734914826406192007-07-31T15:47:00.000+12:002007-07-31T15:47:00.000+12:00Hmmmm well actually AJ says similar to what I was ...Hmmmm well actually AJ says similar to what I was going to say but not everything. Here's my version of what he said:<BR/><BR/>"I don't know exactly how you feel but I've felt similar things. You're an individual, like me, and it's hard. Thankfully God's given me the strength of conviction to continue being who I am without worrying about whether or not people accept me, and without worrying about the fact most of them don't. I pray God will give you the same strength. The fact you've said you believe in church is a good indication he will."<BR/><BR/>As you know I don't go to church at the moment. I've struggled with that for ages cos I know Christians should go to church but I'm starting to realise that it doesn't make me any less because I don't attend every week. I will go back eventually when God shows me the place to go but for now I'm surrounding myself with people that are in the same place as me and are heading in the same direction and that challenge me at the same time and I think that's what church is. Because we don't meet at a set time every week and stick to a plan (prayer, worship, sermon, worship etc) doesn't mean its not church. <BR/><BR/>I have come to realise that sometimes we need to take time out from going to Church and at the start that's very difficult but in the long run it makes us better. <BR/><BR/>Oh heres a weird analogy: You know how people say they want to be single for a while to find out who they are? Isn't it a bit like that? You're spent most of your life in the church environment and with that support but now you need to take some time out and find yourself again?<BR/><BR/>I'm stop now cos I'm probably really far away from what you're saying but I hope you consider what I've said.<BR/><BR/>Ciao!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06463081557242488167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12590114.post-20947467990252880862007-07-31T08:06:00.000+12:002007-07-31T08:06:00.000+12:00I don't know exactly how you feel but I've felt si...I don't know exactly how you feel but I've felt similar things before. You're an individual, like me, and it's hard. Thankfully God's given me the strength of conviction to continue with church, and continue being who I am without worrying about whether or not people accept me, and without worrying about the fact most of them don't. I pray God will give you the same strength. The fact you've said you believe in church is a good indication he will.A. J. 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